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Mon, Sep. 9th, 2002 04:16 am
"what's the difference between dumped and superceded?"

earlier tonight shelly and i decided to swear off boys for awhile. then we went to galaxy hut and saw darren hanlon and realised that really fantastic boys *do* exist - they just live in AUSTRALIA!


[a still from the video i made of tonight's show]

before the show i was questioning whether or not going would be a good idea, since i was feeling so rotten. i figured there was no use sitting around feeling sorry for myself, so shelly and i headed off! we met up with this lovely girl nana, who i always see at the BEST shows, and kevin alvir. after the opening band [cough cough], i called niko asking where he was and he said he just didn't feel like riding his bike to the show. i asked darren when he was going on and he said "in 15 minutes", and i ran to my car, picked niko up, and got back just as he was starting! phew! and, honestly, going to the show tonight was the absolute best thing i could have done. it was one of those shows where my mouth ached after it was over, because i'd smiled so much. after the show, i smiled even more, since we convinced darren and bree to come with us to bob & edith's where:

1) darren ordered grits and scooped the butter out with a spoon and put it on a saucer. then proceeded to pour sugar onto them!
2) shelly did darren's MASH game.
3) it took forever to make our food.
4) i text msged owenm saying that darren said hello and that he would buy him a pint the next time he saw him.
5) on the way, darren read through the notes shelly and i had written during the opening band's set [oops].
6) darren tried to figure out what KCW stood for.
7) afterwards, kevin played 'always buggin' at galaxy hut acoustic for our party and alice and a barfly [and of course i videotaped it].
8) darren and bree said earlier in the night that they were thinking of going to the zoo tomorrow and i told them to call me if they ended up going. i am going to dream of a wake up call from darren hanlon now.

ps. dear friends,
if i tell you a fucking secret [even if it is only that i am playing a joke on djswifty], PLEASE keep it. i am really fucking sick of things i say getting leaked. if i told you something secret, it is because i trust you to keep it that way. if you are unsure as to whether something is a secret or not, please ask me first before telling someone else. i am ranting, but that is because i am allowed to. if you are one of my friends, then i trust you to keep things that i tell you in confidence just between us.

ps2. dear boys (AND friends),
please be honest to me. i don't care if it hurts. i would rather know the truth. lying and/or half truths come out eventually. the longer lies and half truths live, the more they hurt when they are found out. i've had to deal with lying from boys and friends FAR MORE in my lifetime than i should have. if you want to be close to me, then i need yr honesty more than anything else.

Current Mood: swoonerific
Current Music: darren hanlon - beta losers

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djswifty
djswifty
Very Rare Bear
Mon, Sep. 9th, 2002 06:38 am (UTC)

Not to be a big dumb boy - which isn't my fault! Blame the genetic lottery - but I think there's a difference between disseminating personal information to a large group of people, and letting someone in on a tiny joke in exchange for a little peace of mind. Ten bucks says if I'd been in a more receptive mood to fun-having (one, say, that isn't "having an anxiety attack at four AM") everything would've been hush-like. You know what I'm saying?


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madflowr
madflowr
she speaks in song lyrics
Mon, Sep. 9th, 2002 09:11 am (UTC)

there's definitely a difference. that was just was the straw that broke the camel's back, since i've been feeling like announcing that ps for awhile. but honestly, it did annoy me tho and i was in a ranty mood and it had to come out. fin.


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shadesofautumn
shadesofautumn
shades
Mon, Sep. 9th, 2002 07:21 am (UTC)

honestly, going to the show tonight was the absolute best thing i could have done

Hooray! Sometimes it's the nights when you're the most sad/grumpy/upset that are the best nights to go out -- seeing friends and a good show are much better than wallowing at home.

Anyway, glad you had a good night -- keep smilin'! :-)


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dayan
dayan
lunch gun
Mon, Sep. 9th, 2002 08:30 am (UTC)

Aww! I wish I had thrown caution to the wind and attempted to get into the undoubtedly sparsely-attended show here last week. Rats.


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lalalaini
lalalaini
lalalaini
Mon, Sep. 9th, 2002 10:54 am (UTC)

the reason i told swifty is because he had just done the (laughs) thing and i thought it would be really funny if he shocked you by telling you he ate a pork sausage. because i knew you wanted to say it but couldn't. i guess i was wrong. 10,000 tsetse flies give you my sincerest apologies and make-up snogs. ;)
lala,
laini.


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owenm
o
Mon, Sep. 9th, 2002 12:22 pm (UTC)

haha! another one for you:

9) said text msg to owenm woke him up in the nick of time this morning, making sure that he didn't miss his train and got into work without getting into trouble. double-yay!


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lazyspark
lazyspark
Sarah
Mon, Sep. 9th, 2002 03:16 pm (UTC)

Allow me to be the first to exclaim how fucking awesome that is!!
Many time zones away *do* come to good use!


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lazyspark
lazyspark
Sarah
Mon, Sep. 9th, 2002 03:17 pm (UTC)

What does KCW stand for? I'm feeling loopy..


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madflowr
madflowr
she speaks in song lyrics
Mon, Sep. 9th, 2002 03:46 pm (UTC)

kevin chan's weiner! it's not really a common exclamation, but i don't know why it seemed appropriate above. hm.


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lazyspark
lazyspark
Sarah
Mon, Sep. 9th, 2002 11:15 pm (UTC)
Re:

Hahaha yeah. maybe someday i'll have inside jokes of my own. Wait! Hold the presses!! I do, except no one knows about them besides me.. :) And they all don't make any sense!


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